I was religious till i entered my teens and then slowly and surely my thinking become atheist. I am married (more than 24 years) to a strong theist and we respect each other's wishes without compromising in personal domain or feelings.
Our golden rules are: We do not pressurize the one another for following any specific rule. One is free to follow whatever that person feels. We respect one another's feelings and do not ridicule each other. We have one more person (in his twenties now) who also follows similar principles. We have full harmony in our life.
Shyam Perumal